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Sarah Exactly! I can't see any arguement about this sort of arrangment that couldn't also be applied to normal dating practices. [2005-10-07 16:43:15] I *still* wouldn't send an email like that to Kent, even if rearranged or toned down. The only one I'd send is one keeping it light, asking about his classes, mentioning yours, saying what's been going on w/you lately, mentioning the part about drinks sometime, etc. Anything that mentions using you for the Ikea trip, hurt feelings, completely disregarding etc. I think is a really bad idea. Good to vent, but not to actually send. Not that I let people walk all over me without saying anything, because I certainly don't, but I don't think he's done anything horrible, other than maybe getting busy, or having other things going on, or just not being interested in starting up a new friendship/relationship for whatever reason. I'm thinking he didn't expect a trip to Ikea to have such repercussions, or someone to get so worked up when they barely know one another. I'm just picturing if I got an email like that, I'd think the person was someone I'd want to avoid forever and was a total freak. Not that you are, but if I got that email from someone I'd just met, I'd think those things. I'm sorry to be so blunt, but I would. I see nothing at all w/writing to him again, and I would encourage it, but I would definitely keep it light. Just my honest opinion, for what it's worth. :) [2005-10-07 21:01:32] Should read, I see nothing at all WRONG w/writing to him again... Do it, I'd say! :) [2005-10-07 21:03:00] add your comment: |