slush It will be ok, just don't freak yourself out :) One step at a time. [2005-08-10 00:07:01] Sarah Try not too stress, try to enjoy it :) And then make sure to share all the details! [2005-08-10 01:20:30] Kristi Don't worry about the first kiss stuff on the first date... if he's a nice guy he won't even try. At the end of my first date I ended up giving him a really quick hug (kind of impulsively). And then I proceeded to stress out about that hug for the rest of the night following the date. On our second date (the next day), I was seriously freaked out about a possible first kiss, to the point of being nauseated the whole day. We sat on my couch talking for hours, and he kept inching closer. Finally he just turned to me and started kissing me. To be honest, at first I couldn't stop thinking about how WEIRD it was, but after a while I got used to it and stopped obsessing over the fact that I didn't know what I was doing (it came naturally). He told me I was a good kisser. Imagine that! You'll be fine. Freaking out is OK, just don't do it to the point where you talk yourself out of going on the date. Once you get past this first one, it will get so much easier and you'll be wondering why it was such a big deal all those years. THat's how it was for me. [2005-08-10 11:45:06] chelsea I'm sure everything will be ok. Just act like you're out with a friend. Try not to think about what will happen afterwards, i know, that sounds impossible lol. I'll be waiting to know what happens! [2005-08-10 17:35:29] Lisa in So Cal Another reader here, I enjoy your site and wish you all the best on your date. Who knows, he's probably nervous too! It'll go great, keep us posted. (and the other comments here have good advice!) [2005-08-11 02:08:41] Jenn Just breathe. It will come naturally if you like him. Believe me, it will! [2005-08-11 12:17:00] Kristi so, how did it go? dying to hear some news... [2005-08-14 21:36:45] marilynn Well? We are all dying to know what happened? :-) [2005-08-15 13:57:41] Lisa in So Cal I keep checking back too! :) Wanting to know how it went... [2005-08-15 16:06:26] Chelsea dude, where are the details?!!?! I'll keep checking! [2005-08-15 23:22:34] add your comment: your name: your email: your url: Wait... what was Shoop talking about?

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